Thursday, December 28, 2006

Christmas at home, the good, bad, and no show.

It appears that (for the most part) we have come through the Christmas holiday without any contusions or trips to the hospital. Things were either very good, or very bad and not for any of the same reasons.

Good Thing: My parents drove 1100+ miles from south Florida to spend time with us over the holiday. It was a very good thing for both myself and the kids.

Jon came all the way from Florida and could not seem to make it the last 3 miles to see me. I call that a kick in the face. It was devastating to all of us including my Dad. I pretty much think he is on his own now. I have no reason to keep up with him after this. All he wanted from me was the way in to the Navy. Well, he got it.


Friday, December 01, 2006

Background picture.

I needed a graphic posted to use for another reason so here it is.
This page is labeled with ICRA

Wednesday, October 11, 2006

More cheesecake for me!

I bought some of the new Cheesecake filling from Philly Kraft. I really like it. It is the inside filling of a cheesecake in a tub. It tastes great on just about anything (but pasta and pizza).

The other morning, I fixed some toast and put the filling on it as a treat. It was really good. But when I saw Richard heading for the kitchen I noticed that he had not eaten his toast. He said it tasted bad and had already thrown all of his in the trash. Ok, this is a kid that (to my knowledge loves cheesecake. All the stuff was that I spread on the toast was the filling of a cheesecake. So what was the difference? Well, actually nothing.

So, he understands that he is not allowed to have any cheesecake when we buy or bake more. At least for a while. I am not a complete jerk.


Tuesday, October 10, 2006

Cable is not good TV

So far, I have been able to stop the terrible invasion of cable in the home. Things are not getting done here anyway because instead of doing the big things and the kids and my wife handling the little things, I have to do the small stuff too.

It is gratifying to have to stop in the middle of a big project where I am fixing something so unimportant as the roof, to cook dinner or get the DVD player to work. Like I give a crap about them watching a movie when they eat.
Unless something drastically changes, This house will colapse before I get the major repairs done prior to winter. A minor weather problem with it snowing later on this week might make fixing a leaky roof a moot point real soon.

Juggling my job, looking for another job (as always), fixing the house, listening to the kids and my wife complain all the time, and getting homework done at night is taking it's toll on me.

Now I wonder what will actually get done when the cable gets installed? Besides no one being able to sleep because she turns it up so damn loud and is a complete jerk when I repeatedly ask her to turn it down. It is not the kids fault she can't hear worth a crap, or mine either. So the kids and I keep on suffering with a hateful sleep.

I am so happy the cable is not on (for now) It gets installed next week I think. I try and not think about the problems it will cause. I really think that I could go without a TV for a very long time. I always prefered the radio.


Well, that is one less thing I have to do.

I finally took enough crap from Bridget over dinner that I snapped. "You know i don't like these kind of pickles" and "You know I don't like this type of Potato Salad", and when she started in on item number 3, I just lost it and said "Don't worry, I won't ever cook another thing for you". Then I picked up her dinner plate, took it into the kitchen and dumped the whole thing in the trash.

I don't mind someone complaining when something tastes bad. But when there is only so much to work with and a person complains about everything they have, in turn. Well, that is it.

So, now I will have more free time to do other things. It kind of goes both ways. I normally do not like her cooking. But I eat it even if I don't like it.

Was that enough to get the point across?.


Sunday, October 08, 2006

We have moved (again).

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Sunday, August 06, 2006

Jon and the Navy

Boot camp graduation.

The Trip:

  • First, I spent approximately 2 hours on the phone to cover all information on, if we could attend without an invitation, when you were graduating, the date you were done and all the arrangements for the trip.
  • I used five days of vacation, out of the fourteen vacation days I had built up over the last two years. This was to assure we could all be there for the graduation and the rest of the entire day to see you even if it was for just a little while,
  • We drove 750 miles round trip spending 12+ hours each way,
  • Used $150+ in gasoline for the trip,
  • Paid $140+ in hotels,
  • Spent $220+ in meals,
  • And finally we canceled one family vacation we had planned from the beginning of the year,
I know that my ex-wife saw me. She looked directly at me. Unless she has some ailment that makes your vision fail, she just didn't tell him we were there.

OK, that is now what I wanted to say but I am trying to be better than others around me (or who were around me). It is hard to be humble when you have to deal with people as such.


More people complaining and I miss it.

I have had three people call me about not posting here lately. I miss doing it myself so I am going to make a concerted effort to keep this up.

I will probably put a lot in which I have ready to post. The problem is that I have been working on posts for the last 4 months, I just never posted them. So, "Here we go!"


Sunday, June 18, 2006

Never enough time.

I am working thirds now and have been for over a month. WIth limited access to the network and a constant fear of taking my laptop to work, I am not able to do any updates. This is not pleasing to some people. Actually, most everyone who reads the blog. But, I will try and turn over a new leaf today and start writing at night.

Honestly, I try and nap as much as I can while I am between moves in the yard. It is tough to live on 3 or 4 hours of good sleep a day. Especially during the summer when every nappy headed kid is out of school and they are making it their mission in life to keep me awake and piss me off.

I will take the laptop tonight and after atempting to revamp my locker, I will try and write some. It really is not easy as you think. When your beat, the only thing you can think of is where you can curl up to take a nap. I have become quite adept at sleeping upright in an office desk chair. At least I don't have to sit on a bench all night. I don't think my back could take it.

Lets see how things progress.


Wednesday, June 07, 2006

Reminders or annoyances?

I was yelled at the other day because Bridget forgot William's ballgame.

OK, let be get this clear. I was yelled at because I didn't remind her of the game. Yet, I was bitched at because she received reminders on her cell phone for just this reason. I was told she didn't want reminders. They were an annoyance and a bother.

OK. Now that I stopped many of the reminders, I made her miss the game. Anyone want to explain this one to me? I just don't get it and I sure can't explain it. I give up. Remember this one thing if you read this:

"No good deed ever goes unpunished!"


Finger update.

Yes, Maryann's finger is now OK. Her nail is growing back and it appears that everything is going to fine.


Thursday, May 18, 2006

Credit cards are history

We just closed out our last credit card. The only one we owe is the credit union. Even after the catstrophy of the layoff and the van eating more that it was worth.

I truly believe that Jeff Wyler Chrysler Plymouth screwed us big time with that one. It was $400, more, then another phone call for $500, and then $300, until it was a backstabbing $6,000 and when we had asked before the middle of all this castrophy, if we could just trade this in and not go through with the repairs they said "no, we can't do that. They could have a year earlier when we needed some repairs, but for some fraking reason, they could not do it then. I felt screwed, used, and abused from the beginning of that one. Also, I used to really trust that company. They have the greed bug. I will never go there again.
Now we are almost consolidated. Things are looking fair to poor, but we are at least we are moving up in our standing.


Thursday, May 11, 2006

Priceless

Show Bike

  • One of a kind custom trike: Forty Thousand dollars,
  • Two supermodels to show off bike: Two Thousand Dollars,
  • Two Goodyear High Performance Aqua-tread tires: Six hundred dollars,
  • Putting the tires on backwards at an international show for the whole world to see:

Priceless!

Priceless!

This is one that I doubt anyone picked up. If anyone either caught this one, or doesn't get it, post a comment or send me an e-mail.


'Birthdays are important to most'
OR
'Not everone wants a cake'

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I have never really liked birthdays or celebrating birthdays since I was little. It was never a big thing to me. It was an add-on. Now, I see this as a problem because others seem to make an issue out of their birthday. To many I have met, their birthday really is a big occasion.

Why are birthdays just another day for me? Why do I loth them so? I truly think this goes back to when I was a kid. You see, my Birthday is always either right around or on Thanksgiving. All the family would come over for Thanksgiving dinner and we would always have a pumpkin pie, or my Aunt would make a Red Velvet cake. I love them both and one was always considered my birthday cake. So, the holiday was the reason to get everyone together. It was never really "My Birthday" alone. I think my Mom & Dad would take real offense to this, or even get upset. That is not why I am telling this. I am saying it now, because this is how I view the situation, (That, and my Mom told me they never read this blog anyway.)

Well, I think that this is basic psychology. If no one makes a big deal out of it, it is unimportant. So, since my birthday was a sidebar to the holiday, it must not be important. OK, this is kid thinking. I know that my parents would be upset at me saying this. But it is how a kid thinks. A learned action or habit is hard to forget and an annual party with another subject as the main theme would make anyone think that it was unimportant.

I need to start off by saying that my parents did a wonderful thing every year getting everyone together. It was always very nice. All my Grandparents were there every year. Other members of the family normally showed up. The Batavia side showed up when I was smaller. Or at least, I have pictures of them there. My Aunt Judy, with her Beehive hairdo and the like. The pictures are dated of various years in the late 60s. I would get birthday presents and have a nice time. But it was more the family get-together. I can't quote you the psycho-babble on why this happened. It just did. Maybe the adage, "No good deed ever goes unpunished" really fits this sitation. My parents did everything to make it special, but no matter how extravagant our annual Thanksgiving get-together was, it was never really my Birthday. It was Thanksgiving 'with' my birthday.

I did have a couple of friends in high school who took exception to my "Birthday Misgivings", but they tried all the same. I really only remember two girlfriends who really made a big thing of "my" birthday.

(BTW, neither of the two who cared were my ex-wife. Birthdays with her were always a painful experience. Both for me, and then my son. Considering she never really wanted to marry me, (which will be another entry later on) it made it easier to make birthdays an excuse for her and other things.)
earlier (in high school) my friends were to the point where we did things together on or around my birthday where it was more a time to just slow down and watch the world go by. It was not about presents, just spending time together.

Trying to compensate

One thing Bridget does is make the kids Birthday special. She also makes them completely seperate from any other event. To stress this point, I will use William's Birthday last year as an example. Last Year, Bridget's Aunt died and she had to go out to Oregon for a week or so. His birthday was over that week and he was so upset because we didn't celebrate his birthday. Eight months later, he still brings it up and until his next birthday where we all do something to celebarate it, I know he will be upset. I just hope nothing happens to anyone this year. That would be tough on him (and everyone else) since we celebrated his brother and sisters birthday in the following months.


Sunday, May 07, 2006

"Where does all the money go?"
OR
"How come smashed fingers bleed so much?"

This evening, Maryann smashed a finger under a skateboard or rollerskate or something along those lines. Her friend was not watching what was going on her and Maryann was not watching what was happening around her either. Now the smashed finger apparently began bleeding pretty good right away. The entourage of friend followed her home. I am not sure how they kept up with her. She ran pretty fast to get back to the apartment.

Now when I was a kid, I would have run home and Mom would have washed off my finger and put a band-aid on it.
Yes, Maryann's was bleeding and the nail is sure to come off. But get real here. Bridget ran her to the hospital. Yes, she was upset. I know it was bleeding. Not very much, just a little.
Crap. When I smashed my fingers (four at the same time) they bled a lot. Like in little red squirt guns. Right from under the tips and after having them smashed by a 50 pound piece of aluminum slamming down on them. But that was my four grown up fingers smashed about 2/3 of the way flat and up to the first knuckle. Hers was just at the top end of the nail and bled enough to maybe cover a big band-aid.
Anyway, she is still gone at the hospital, 3 hours later.

Now I come to my point. Who is going to pay for all this? I know I am. But I can't see how. This will probably cost $300 to $500 for someone to, irrigate the wound, wrap it up, and tell her to see her family doctor if it start to do something bad. I was going to do just that, and I have enough intelligence to know that if it was not healing up, to take her to the doctor. But I guess that emotional panic overrules patient judgment.

I have really good insurance, but it costs all the same. If I could have taken her to the Air Force Base hospital, it would have been nearly free.

(OK, I am not entering in the $50 in gasoline it takes for a round trip to the Base.)
This little error in judgment will be half a weeks pay for the deductible.

Now for what I really wanted to say.

If I was an illegal alien, I would not be worrying about this bill. My stress level would be so low, I would think of this emergency room trip just like a trip to the fair. I would just go to the hospital and do everything they ask. Filling out forms, doing loads of paperwork. Then all I would have to do is skip out on the bill. What would be better, than to have free health care at a moments notice! I know there are people reading this and saying things like:

  • "I should not be saying this kind of things,
      or
  • The illegal aliens in this country deserve to be here because of all the oppression they were enduring.
Well I say bullshit. We have many friends here who worked their fingers to the bone to come here. They are now outstanding citizens of the United States and each couple came from a different country on various continents on the planet. This all happened through hard work and doing what ever was needed to be a citizen. I can't speak for them, but I have spoken to them about this exact situation and they indicated that they are very pissed off. Not at the government, but at the illegals who make it so very hard for legitimate immigrants to enter the country, let alone become citizens. Yes, they consider them criminals. They are stealing our healthcare (I doubt they are going to pay for the healthcare they receive when they can get away without paying). They are stealing our children's education by having their children enrolled in schools where the do not pay taxes to pay for the programs they use. If your illegal, you don't have a social security number, thus how would you ever pay taxes?

Anyway, this is just a rant. I will probably take it down after a few day and re-edit it. But until then, is there a way legit way to do an illegal act? Besides being in this country illegally and stealing from the general population on a daily basis?

Bridget brought Maryann home after 3 hours. They did exactly what I thought they would do and removed the nail. The only difference between there and here is that the hospital used novacaine. We would have used time and growth here to remove the nail. I doubt she has learned anything from this experience. I would like her to learn something, even if it is that accidents are painful. No one likes to have their child in pain. But for me, that is what always convinced me what was right and wrong in decision making. If it didn't hurt me, I didn't learn anything from an experience. I hope she does not miss the point of her accident.

Injury updates!

They made it home after over 3 hours. Apparently she was a pretty good patient. They x-rayed it, injected her with novacane, and pulled off the nail. She was pretty upset even after all of that was over. She did feel better after a little after a bowl of ice cream. So, with all the meds and attending medical personnel, I imagine that this will end up being around $800+. Like I said. This is the reason I really hate being honest.


Wednesday, April 26, 2006

Haircuts and stuff all around

Today we had a good hair day! Several things happened and all of them were non-mainstream thinking. (I will post some pictures later on.)

  • Bridget got her hair cut again. She has another Marine "high & tight". I really like it. She is not as impressed but it looks so good with her face. It is just great.
  • Maryann got in trouble for cutting some hair at school. Her teacher is working with us to keep her in line due to her tendency to cut off chunks of hair. If she does it again, we have warned her that she cuts it again, she will get a Marine cut like Mom. She is not happy with that, but we have to do something.
  • This morning, Bridget braided my beard. I am not sure why. I look like a friggin' pirate. They have wanted to do it for quite a while so I finally gave in. I am not sure how long I will keep it braded, but it should freak the railroaders out to say the least.


A Family Constitution

Apparently, Richard was reprimanded for doing this entire project last night. For some strange reason, I was actually home and not sleeping. I had come into the yard to attend some training and was home so we did the whole thing.

The teacher (In Richard's words) yelled at him because he did the whole paper. There were no instructions on the sheet, so we did it all. I thought we had a really good time doing it. It was kind of fun and turned out to be rather funny in itself. We really did think about this one and I thought our solution was rather brilliant. From now on, I will have to surmise that in today's school systems, (or at least in this one) you can get yelled at for actually doing the work you are given. I must assume that a slacker must get an award for their lack of work.

Is this Sarcastic? Sure. Angry at doing a good job and having my child yelled at in front of the other students? Sure. Am I going to the school tomorrow to find out why he was punished for really good work? Sure.


Our Family Constitution

Preamble

  • Goals of the family:

    • To provide for the health, education and welfare of the family.
Type of Government: "Self-proclaimed Monarchy"
  • Describe the government:  

    • Upon marrying, Todd (being the primary source of income) proclaimed himself as King and thus created a Self-proclaimed Monarchy.  Immediately following this marriage, Bridget was named Queen.  

    • Having all the monies of the Monarchy shared equally between the King and Queen, the ruling class is charged with making all financial decisions of the kingdom.

    • All (three) subjects of the kingdom (Not counting the dog) are treated in the best way possible within the limitations and confines of the Kingdom.
  • Responsibilities of each member of the family:

    • Rules and Laws:

      • All members of the Monarchy are responsible to adhere to all the laws of the land.  This includes government laws, as well as moral standards.

      • All subjects are required to follow the laws laid down by the King and Queen (even if the law contradicts with the desires of the subjects of the Monarchy)

      • If you make a statement of action, you must abide by your statement.  

    • Food:

      • All subjects are provided with all the necessary food by the King and Queen.

      • A festival is held once a week or so where the Monarchy treats the subjects to provide an extravagance, if the subjectsÂ’ labors are above par. (and there is sufficient funds in the kingdomÂ’s treasury)

    • Education:

      • The subjects of the Monarchy are educated in the current standards of the land which they dwell.

      • Extra tutoring (homework labs) are provided as necessary

      • Homework is handled as best possible but is mandatory.

    • Work:

      • On a rotating basis, all members of the Monarchy are required to partake in the various work needed to keep the monarchy running smoothly with such a small Kingdom.

        • Laundry:  All members are required to separate, wash, dry, and put away all membersÂ’ laundry with extra emphasis on the individual assuring their own laundry is completed.

        • Kitchen duty:  The duties are split up to the member(s) who have spare time.

          • Cooking is ‘mainlyÂ’ performed by the King. (and sometimes the Queen)

          • Dishes are done by all members of the kingdom,

        • Livestock:

          • All subjects are required to “Walk the dog” as necessary.  The subjects are required to handle exercise the kingdomÂ’s canine during daylight hours or in emergencies as needed.

          • The responsibility of feeding the livestock falls to the Queen, whose animal this is.  

          • This job is normally delegated to one of the kingdomÂ’s subjects.

        • Medical Care:

        • All subjects of the realm are provided healthcare (and dental) through the KingÂ’s Medical coverage without charge.

Bill of Rights
  • Freedom to:

    • Be patriotic to the nation in which they live,

    • Speak their mind (respectfully) to anyone within the family without fear of sarcasm, mockery, disdain, or disbelief,

    • Be emotional,

    • Express their religious views,

    • Be Artistic,

    • Learn from their mistakes,

    • Participate in sports, music, scouting, etcÂ…

    • Dispute the laws put down by the King and Queen (but not to break the same laws)


  • Freedom from:

    • Excessive punishment for crimes against the kingdom and the lands surrounding the kingdom.

    • NOTE: this does not exclude being subject to the laws outside the family,

    • Relative(s) oversight,

    • Age inappropriate materials (scary movies, etcÂ….)

    I will try and post the final project if he does not get kicked out of school for doing the work he was assigned. I am not confident that this will blow over but I am hopeful.



Friday, April 21, 2006

Password changes

Password changes are essential around here. Bridget keeps allowing the kids access to her login on the computer and that is not a idea I agree with at all.

If your now asking why? Then you either don't have kids, or do not have a computer. Kids are the ones who generally just delete things they don't see as important. Sure, Bridget continually asks me the same thing; "Can I remove this?" Things like operating system essentials, and such tend to keep a computer running when you restart it. At least with Microsoft products it does. Service packs, upgrades and the like are notorious for taking up hard drive space so the continued questions of "Why do we need that?" reappear everytime...

  1. I am out of town,
  2. When ever she buys a new game,
The ability to make my life miserable by rehashing the same computer questions over and over is taking it's toll on me. Things like, "I just want to play my game, why won't it work?" and "You can't expect me to remember these things.....", and the best one, "What is a browser again?" I think you can get a grasp on a smidgen of what I am saying here.

One way I stop things from changing on the computers we own is to set security and change passwords. That way, it only slows down the eventual onslaught of repairs and hours of frustration.

We currently have 5 PCs sitting on the floor of the living room. None work and the reason being is that I can't stand the bitching I hear everytime I try and fix one. I will not throw them out, but I can't fix them either. Now that I have complied with the demands to "just get rid of that monitor, we don't use it" and "what do we need all those cables for anyway?". Now that all the essential parts to repair the systems are gone, there is nothing to do with the major parts except look at them. A computer tower then becomes a place to stack never used piles of fabric for projects for other people or families, unworked boxes of church related sundries which have been donated by others, for other people, and various crapola which can't be addressed due to "a complete lack of cooperation" in what I call "doing it once and it is done" thinking.

You know what I mean. The "put it away when your done", and the "If you get it out, clean it, and put all the parts together so we can find it next time" ideas. This is a big one here. I have yet to find a cord to the rice cooker I bought while back because Bridget could not take the extra 15 seconds to put the cord back with the device. Now, I get blamed that it is missing and that I need to find it because it should be with a box of cords somewhere that used to be in the dinning room? I don't understand that one but you can get what I am driving at here.
but the fact is, I have 5 good systems which I can't fix because I can't get any cooperation from either Bridget or the kids.

So, I just keep making it harder for them to get in and screw things up. It is the only way I have enough time to get the absolute bare essentials done. Life here is not good for someone who was at the top of the food chain in IT, it is just living day-to-day and trying to keep something running so I can keep reading my e-mail and attempting to keep from going stir crazy from petty retributions.

As a note, I have just changed my passwords for blogger and removed everyone elses accounts to stop the potential of someone deleting my entire blog setup. Yes, I think that could happen if left unchecked. Considering all the questions as to "why is that on your blog" and "I don't see why that is on there", I have special reason to password protect my work.


Lamp posts?

I am working alot on the railroad and do not have a lot of time to post here. I have a solution, but no one listens.

I want Bridget, Richard, and William to post here. They have tons of really great stories, but the will not take the time to do the typing.

Richard is the worst. He has really great ideas, but when it comes to actually doing the typing, he just sits, cries, pouts and cranks out some really bad work. I wonder if I can get his teacher involved with this?

Bridget is another story. Her life both in and out of the Navy is really worth a book. I am going to keep on working on her to start writing it down. I believe that the only way that will happen, is if by some way, she breaks both legs and can't move.

Hopefully, you will see more later on. I will e-mail the teacher tonight.


Monday, April 17, 2006

Creating a welcome (or your not welcome) screen for your computer.

You can create a message that will appear when you log on to your computer. One of the reasons you should do this is to display a message to everyone who will be atempting to log onto your computer (or computers). My main reason is to warn everyone to keep their paws off my computer. OK, if your not familiar with the registry editor, you probably should not do this. NOTE: I will not be responsible for you screwing up your computer due to inexperience or lack of training. But, if you have the balls to do it, here is how to start up your computer with a message.

If your running WindowsXP, your absolute first step is to do a system restore "backup". If you do not know how to do this first step without help, I recommend you do not persue this change any further.

If your still willing and able to do this change, then continue with the following steps.

  1. Click Start, click Run, type regedit, and then click OK.
  2. In the Registry Editor, drill down to the following key: HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\SOFTWARE\Microsoft\Windows NT\CurrentVersion\Winlogon
  3. Right-click LegalNoticeCaption, click Modify, type My Windows XP Machine, and then click OK.
  4. Right-click LegalNoticeText, click Modify, and then type your message.
  5. Close the editor and your new message will appear at every log on.
This tip applies to computers that are part of a domain. For stand-alone or peer-to-peer networks, the custom screen appears just before the Welcome screen.

You may need to have an administrator account on your computer to make changes to the registry. Incorrectly editing the registry may severely damage your system. At the very least, you should back up any valued data on the computer before making changes to the registry.


Thursday, April 13, 2006

Removing hidden XP Stuff (again)

I get this question at work all the time. If I did computer work at the railroad, I would get paid for it. I get paid for working on everyone's PC so I will just post this one again and let you do it.

Everyone wants to uninstall everything WindowsXP doesn't completely need to run optimally. Problem is, some programs you don't want taking up space hide away. They're next to impossible to find, much less remove.

Don't worry, because there is a Windows tweak that'll help you immediately. I found it back in November 2001 on a TV show called "The Screen Savers". I found it and posted it in my family blog back then, but I thought I should tell you again.

NOTE: This is not a total geek task, but if you have questions, just call me or instant message me with the link in the side frame. I will be happy to help you do this. I just am not really into fixing it if you screw it up without asking for help first!

  1. Navigate to C:\WINDOWS\inf

  2. Open the sysoc.inf file in Notepad or another plain text editor. If you can't find the inf directory, it's probably hidden. Unhide it.

    1. Click Tools and choose Folder Options.
    2. Under View, enable Show Hidden Files & Folders.

  3. In sysoc.inf, look for the section called "components" in XP or "old base components" in 2000. What looks like a bunch of gibberish is actually pretty easy to read. You'll see a component name, followed by an equals sign, followed by a list of parameters separated by commas.

    For example: Games=ocgen.dll,OcEntry,games.inf,HIDE,7

  4. The deal: the "HIDE" between the two last commas indicates a hidden component. Remove "HIDE" to unhide the component.

    For example: Games=ocgen.dll,OcEntry,games.inf,,7

  5. Unhide any component you want.

  6. Save the file.

  7. Reopen the Windows Component Wizard to see your new Add/Remove options!


Tuesday, April 11, 2006

I said, "Please!, don't throw it away."

I had previously bought one of the catsup bottle that squirt out of the bottom. They make thing much easier when trying to prepare lunches. The initial purchase of said bottle with contents is about the same as one of the huge bottles you get when you are supplying a small army. So, my reasoning is that I keep the expensive bottle clean, when empty I wash it thorughly and refill it. Thus, everything is clean, inexpensive and a real "non-burdon" for something so trivial as catsup.

Well, about the last time two times I found the bottle in the trash, I pulled it out, cleaned it up, and refilled it. I also told Bridget to please not throw the bottle away since I wanted to refill it. That, and I wisely sitpulated that she would not have to do anything except just tell me if and when it was empty.

Well, once again the bottle is gone. Now I hear "You never told me that" crap again. It is getting really bad when she throws it away then tells me I am a liar.

I feel that my only option at this point is to either record every conversation we have, or write down everything I say to here and give it a a date-time stamp.

I think she would probably find the book, throw it away too, then forget that I ever had a book only for this reason so maybe posting to this blog will be the best way to keep track of things like this.

First I have to remove her access so she can't delete this too.


Saturday, April 01, 2006

Now I don't get this one.

There is now a site, (not that I understand it) but it is for women who get their vehicles stuck, then trying to get them back out.

www.carstuckgirls.com

I was sent this by a woman friend who was pissed. She was mad that they were making fun of women, but it is not a funny or make fun site. If you see it, the site is actually some kind of 'stranded woman in trouble fetish site. I don't get it, but someone must. And all this time, I thought that getting your vehicle stuck was a bad thing.

You know, this might be a fantasy site for 'Tow-truck drivers'?


Wednesday, March 08, 2006

Refinancing is (was) evil

I refinanced our pickup just now. It took 30 minutes on hold, and then 25 minutes over the phone to get it all worked out. We refinanced for the same amount of time, but this way we a lesser payment. This is much easier now that we have our account at our regular credit union.

I wish that I had been able to get this done earlier. We might have saved a few hundred dollars over the last year.

Anyway, it is over with and I didn't lose any blood even though I do feel like I went through a bad day at the dentist.


Tuesday, March 07, 2006

He is officially out!

Jon's Yahoo AvatarI received a wonderful phone call tonight. Jon has finally finished moving out. No more will I ever have to hear about my ex-wife and any more of her marriages. No more will I have to ever see her face. And no more will I ever have to listen to her hateful drivel.

If I sound mean and evil, so be it. This is a day of celebration for me. I can actually visit my son for more than an hour or two. This is a wondrous day. I am planning a future stop so I can spend a day or two with him if possible. I will have vacation time coming up and I have waited so long for this to happen.

I have literally drempt of a time when I spent time with him. Ever since the early 90s, I have thought about this. I am so very happy. To spend time with your son is one of the best times in a man's life. Now, I hope he is not too busy to spend the time with me.


Tuesday, February 28, 2006

What to do with the tax refund???

While many people have the notion of what they will do with their tax refund check, like

  • Buying a motorcycle,
  • Taking a trip to Hawaii,
  • Getting that new wide screen HDTV,
  • Or even a new really fast gaming computer,
I have a much more humble idea of what to do.

I have been making a list of things I need to get with my return. Here are just a few items I would like to get if I actually get a refund check:

  • 14 pair of socks (so I have two pair for every day),
  • New shoes for each of the kids,
  • Paying my XM bill for a year, (this is a want, not a need)
  • An oil change and air filters for both vehicles,
  • A big bottle (or two) of Tide, not generic detergent,
  • 4 pair of socks for each Child,
  • Some little tank tops for Bridget to wear under her shirts,
  • Baseball shoes and sandals for each kid,
  • The dog needs to get his shots at the vet,
  • A toaster,
  • Pay the school fees (from September),
  • If possible, Scout camp for both boys and YMCA camp for Maryann this summer,
  • Bridget wants some Mascara and good conditioner,
  • And antivirus for the computers which expired in mid February,
So you see, these are not extravagant things. Just things we need.


Honeymoons are not always "special"

There are some individuals we know who constantly expound on how everyone must have an extravagant honeymoon. The half dozen or so are people who have lots of money and take great pride in that fact. Matter of fact, several are children of wealthy familes who really have never had to struggle for much anything their entire lives. I will have to classify them as "The Oblivious".

Now that I have said that, I have to describe the day I was married to Bridget and our honeymoon.

The Wedding: For us, we were married on a Friday, in the afternoon. It was a nice legal ceremony by some woman lawyer. My Grandfather was the best man. Our friends Becky and Abby were the Bridesmaids if you must title them. It all took place at an office in North Florida just down from the Georgia border. The woman had never married anyone before and was more of an event to her, than us. I really think she was more choked up about everything than we were.

Anyway, it was all done and over, signed and notariezed inside of 30 minutes. Very simple, very casual (for lack of a better way of putting it).

The Honeymoon: I don't think it was technically a honeymoon. I can only describe it as more like "a day off of work". We all stopped at the DairyQueen at the Kingsland exit. Bridget and I split a banana split. I think my Grandfather had an ice cream cone if memory serves.

We saw Dave Thomas who started Wendy's in the parking lot as we were leaving. Not that it makes any diference to the story, but it is one of those things you always remember even though it has nothing to do with the story. (go figure)
Now when we got home, that is when things got interesting. I remember opening a diet coke, and doing load of dungarees (uniforms) and getting ready for work the next day. I remember moving firewood up to the house and Bridget had duty on the ship the next day. No party, no real anything. My Grandfather stopped by and I think we all sat around and had dinner.Monday, the ship got underway and that is where the fun ended.

I guess my point is that not all honeymoons are sweet, spectacular events which people brag about. I could quote you about a dozen more such events which friends have also experienced, but I will wait for a comment requesting them.


Saturday, January 21, 2006

XM Customer Service?

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OK, I am not a mean or contentious person, but if you hire someone (outsourcing) to support your product, you should hire someone that speaks the language of the consumers in the area the consumer lives. I have such a hard time getting anything done with XM's (so called) customer support, I have resolved to keep dialing and retrying to speak to someone who speaks English as their primary language. I do not speak Hindi, nor do I ever expect to. Thus, I am really angered at my repeated called to get my bill corrected.

More on this in a while. I am so fatigued at getting this fixed, I can't think straight.


Sunday, January 15, 2006

Richard's week at school

Yahoo! AvatarsMonday: Biosphere art project: I got a A+ on my project. Wetlands packet: I turned in my "Wetlands are wonderlands" packet and Mr.Farmer is grading it. Daniel Boone research: My class used the fifth grade latops And I found a web site called wickapedia. It was about his early life ,just about every thing about him.

Tuesday: No science:But my class had an activety on weight measurments. More research on Daniel Boone. I used the books from a cart at school on Daniel Boone and diden't get any facts. Cub Scouts: They were cancled so we cleaned the apartment

Wednesday: Physical property paragraph: It took me about five minutes to write. More research on Daniel Boone: I used google and got a lot of info on him. William: caught a fever called influineza which means I might get it. It is a virus.

Thursday: Invitation packet:was kind of fun and boring at the same time. William: He still had flu symtoms.

Friday: More research on Daniel Boone:I used books from the schools library. William: He still wasn't felling good at all.

Weekend: I played "Ratchet and Clank, Going commando" on our PS2, and cleaned the apartment.