Tuesday, December 21, 2004

Christmas Cookies

I wrote this 1/17/2002 and thought I would repost it today. It is about Christmas Eve, 1985, but you will understand what I am talking about.

CHRISTMAS EVE 1985

Cookies: I was talking with a woman at the gym real early this morning. We were talking about the very best cookies we had ever had. My best cookie memory is of a box of chocolate chip cookies I received from my Mom. It was 1985. I was in the Navy and stationed onboard the USS Yellowstone, and we were tending tin cans (Destroyers). We were in the middle of a Med Cruise. It was Christmas and we were med-moored in the harbor in Naples, Italy. It was very cold and rainy. The reason I remember it as “my best cookie memory” is that I received these cookies and had forgotten a couple I had saved for the 20-24 watch on Xmas eve (Christmas morning).

I was on watch on the Flight deck of the ship. There was a driving rain and real cold. Let’s put this in perspective to get you to understand how hard it was raining. The rain was coming down so hard, my boots “filled up” with rainwater. I was standing on the flight deck which is completely flat (with the exception of the helicopter tie-downs). I think that the water was three inches deep on the flat surface of the flight deck and it was blasting down literally in sheets. (Strange how you remember “all” the terrible times and only a “few” of the good times) This is weather that most people don’t leave their dog out in, let alone stand out in themselves. In Florida, they usually throw the deck/lawn furniture into the pool at times like this to keep it from becoming a missile hazard.

Sidebar: Earlier in the evening, I had gone and picked up a package from the Post Office onboard the ship. There was an unusual mail-call in the late afternoon that day. Sometimes it’s good to be the one with the Post Office access for the division (heh heh heh). Anyway, I picked up my package. It was rather smashed, crumpled, (and looked like the gorillas in a sampsonite commercial where handling the package) and went back to the Foundry. Everyone was curious to see what I received. Considering how homesick everyone was, you can understand. We had been gone for over 5 months by then. You also have to take into consideration that there was nothing to do on the ship except watch more reruns of movies we had seen at least 40 times. Well, I returned to the shop and everyone was there, all 13 people in the shop (bumming). Everyone gathered around and pretended to not be interested in what I received. I opened the box and whatever it was; it was packed in this regular, dry, unsalted popcorn. It is funny how many people were all smiles because of a box of popcorn. We had not even bothered to look deeper yet. the idea of that we had some unsalted popcorn to munch was good enough a reason to make everyone jump. I think that had to be the best popcorn we all had ever had too, since the kids in the Foundry ate all the packing in 10 minutes. And it was nasty popcorn too.

As everyone steadly disposed of the now unneeded packing material, I began to dig through the popcorn to see if Mom had sent me a big box of popcorn or if there was something else. Wow! Cookies!. So now a previously unhappy bunch was up, smiling and devouring this new found treat. So we all snarfed down that popcorn and munched cookies like they were going out of style. Everyone would take a big handful of popcorn, eat it down, smile and then say, “Man, that popcorn is really nasty” and then someone else would grab another big handful and just say “but it’s sure doesn't seem to be bothering anyone!” We laughed so hard about that “packing” until we cried.

Back to the cookies: Well, I had put two of those cookies in my coat pocket, so I would be sure I would have a couple for myself for something like a "Christmas present from home". The best part was I forgot the silly things until I was almost off watch. it was about 2300. Like I said, the rain was just coming down like getting sprayed with a 4” fire hose (for you “civilians”, that is a lot of water). Well, my gloves were full of water too. So I took them off so I could put my hands in my coat pocket which was wet but not yet full of water. And there they were. Two Chocolate Chip cookies! I doubt that I (or anyone for that matter) could have been happier. OK, let me say it this way….

  • I was on the flight deck of a Destroyer Tender,
  • moored in Naples, Italy,
  • in a driving rain,
  • with my boots full of water,
  • my uniform soaked through to the skin,
  • with the temperature just above freezing,
  • on Christmas eve night,
  • at just about midnight,
  • And I had two, soggy chocolate chip cookies from my Mom in my pocket!
  • (and a big smile on my face)
  • Ya gotta love those chocolate chip cookies! The funniest part of the whole thing is that several years later, I was talking about this and telling her how good those cookies were and she told me that they were not “homemade”, but from a box. I guess it does not matter how they were made, sometimes, a couple of chocolate chip cookies is all anyone needs to make for one of the best Christmas (of cookie) memories ever.

    Merry Christmas


    Sunday, December 19, 2004

    Wright or wrong?

    Remember, two wrongs don't make a right, but two Wright's made an airplane.


    Thursday, December 16, 2004

    Washer repairs?

    The Sears repairman was here. He was scheduled a week ago to come and fix the washer. Well, the part he needed was not on the truck and we have to wait another week for the part. He said he will be back on Thursday morning (December 23rd).

    I am rather pissed that Sears (not the repairman) didn't have a part on the truck after the repairman said, "we need to have the board on the truck since we replace them as often as we do".


    Friday, December 03, 2004

    Back to it

    I have not posted lately because of my schedule, training, and freaky work times. I am going to make a concerted effort to restart this blog and will hopfully make it worth your while to take the time to read it.

    Thank you for your patience with me.


    Saturday, September 25, 2004

    The Rupture Essence

    A poem by Ayesha Ekanayake

    Trembling uncontrollably with fear,
    Panic-stricken chaos engulfs my mind,
    Such a frail unstable state.
    Amid,
    Once easily shattered by one fragile touch,
    Fingerprints that will never be seen, yet remembered.
    A spirit,
    Abandoned, tormented and left unheard,
    A shattering scream cries out...
    The bitter tears blister my cheeks,
    A crack,
    Appears on my skin
    My soul slowly seeps through the cracks
    Serenity flows in my veins,
    I begin to fade,
    The sun rises,
    I yearn for my tears,
    I am lonely for my loneliness
    Insecurity,
    Swallows me whole.

    This was composed by a friend. Ms. Ekanayake has exclusive rights to this work and has allowed me permission to republish the poem here.

    To view the project as a whole, click on the seperator bar below.


    Wednesday, September 22, 2004

    Prozac 'found in drinking water'

    With the push for the 'Lib Dems' to take over the political situation in the UK, you could put in that the prozac in the water is the reason. Is the push for socialism in the UK and the prozac in everyone's drinking water just coincidence, or intervention from within the political system rulers?!? Could this be the new mind control solution for 'Big Brother'? I imagine that only time will tell. But if there is a strong push for socialism in one particular section of the US, I think that someone needs to check the water supply fast. The conspiracy is plausible and with the way things are going in the world, it is actually highly possible.

    Now off to the facts!

    Traces of the antidepressant Prozac can be found in the nation's drinking water, it has been revealed.

    An Environment Agency report suggests so many people are taking the drug nowadays it is building up in rivers and groundwater.

    A report in Sunday's Observer says the government's environment watchdog has discussed the impact for human health.

    A spokesman for the Drinking Water Inspectorate (DWI) said the Prozac found was most likely highly diluted.

    'Alarming'

    TThe newspaper says environmentalists are calling for an urgent investigation into the evidence.

    It quotes the Liberal Democrats' environment spokesman, Norman Baker MP, as saying the picture emerging looked like "a case of hidden mass medication upon the unsuspecting public".

    He says: "It is alarming that there is no monitoring of levels of Prozac and other pharmacy residues in our drinking water."

    Experts say the anti-depression drug gets into the rivers and water system via treated sewage water.

    Prescriptions increase

    The DWI said the Prozac was unlikely to pose a health risk as it was so "watered down".

    The Observer says the revelations raise new fears over how many prescriptions for the drug are given out by doctors.

    In the decade leading up to 2001, the number of prescriptions for antidepressants went up from nine million per year to 24 million per year, says the paper.

    The Environment Agency report concluded that the Prozac in the water table could be potentially toxic and said the drug was a "potential concern".

    The exact amount of Prozac in the nation's drinking water is not known.

    BBC News Online


    Saturday, September 18, 2004

    Election Solidarity

    There are less than three months until the election, an election that will decide the next President of the United States. The man elected will be the President of all Americans, not just the Democrats or the Republicans.

    To show our solidarity as Americans let's all get together and show our support of the candidate of choice. It's time we all came together, Democrats and Republicans alike.

    If you support the policies and character of President George W. Bush, please drive with your headlights on during the day.

    If you support John Kerry, please drive with your headlights off at night.


    Saturday, September 04, 2004

    Last day on the "Hump"

    The screech at the beginning is the retarder slowing cars down on the hill below. Please do not have your speakers cranked up when this starts.

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    Friday, September 03, 2004

    Air Attack

    I found this graphic on the net. The caption indicated this was an air attack that created the explosion. If anyone knows more about this picture, please e-mail me.

    This is just an animated graphic file but if you ask me, there is a frame or two out of sequence. It makes it harder to see what really happened.

    No, I do not know who this is, what military force it is, or even what country it is. That is why I have asked if anyone knows the specifics.

    It looks like a Russian APC to me, but I know ships better than ground units.


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    Tuesday, August 17, 2004

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    Audioblog appears to be having problems again

    I have seen where the posts are not coming up or take a very long time to review. I am not sure and there is nothing on the site to indicate a problem. Please be patient if you want to listen to my posts. I ain't my fault!

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    Friday, August 13, 2004

    Games gallery

    I found a neat site where you can play some of the old arcade games on your PC. Check out 80smusiclyrics.com to play them.

    To play asteroids now, click on the bar below.


    Saturday, August 07, 2004

    Maryann has an earache

    Last night, Maryann was telling us of an earache she had. We were able to get an appoint for the doctor to see her so I took her this morning.

    Yes, it appears to be a mix of swimmers ear, and an inner ear infection. So she now has a perscription of antibiotics and ear drops to kick both problems at the same time.


    Thursday, August 05, 2004

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    Wednesday, August 04, 2004

    Now you tell me

    There is something wrong with this picture. I won't say what it is, but it took me several minutes for me to find it out what it is. Yeah, I normally don't post this stuff, but it was interesting.


    No, not yet!

    The house is not on the web yet but I will put links up as soon as the site is built. I will probably point one of my domains at it. I bought several back when I was working for Compaq and they were paid for until 2008. I have not accessed them for a while. I better see if they still are mine.

    More as it becomes available!


    Our realtor

    Chuck Charles - Huff RealtyWe are using Chuck Charles again as our realtor. He is a good man and knows how to show a house. He currently is working under Huff Realty which is a local company.

    Oops, I forgot. Yes, we have the house back on the market. This time we will get a small place somewhere away from the city. A nice quiet and inexpensive place where we don't have to worry about anything but family, fun and relaxation.

    Remember, if you want to see something new every time, click on the separator bar below.


    Audio posts are having problems.

    There appears to be a minor problem with audioblogger and the audio postings. There is nothing I can do about it, except delete the damaged file links.

    If you can't read a audio post, try clicking on it again. If it still does not work, the problem is on the server side.

    In the even you do notice a problem, I would greatly appreciate it if you would send me an e-mail so I can correct it. I normally do not listen to my own audio posts. This address goes straight to my cell so I can edit it if I am near a PC. It does not cost me anything to receive messages there, so what the hey. Might as well be on top of things when I can.


    92 on today's test

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    Saturday, July 31, 2004

    Quote of the day

    "A woman's appeal is all about breasts and childbearing hips. Only very recently have skinny women-who are barely female, have no breasts and hips and resemble twelve-year old boys-come into fashion. But that look was created by gay men."

    Gene $immons

    This is not a recient quote, just one that made me laugh.


    Tuesday, July 27, 2004

    What is all this "Stuff"?

    In the though that someone might actually care, I have been posting my audio posts from the cell phone where ever I get the idea to do it. The sound quality is terrible but there is not much I can do about that. At least until this phone fails and I have to get another one.


    The "Signals" test

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    This mornings test

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    Saturday, July 24, 2004

    No time to post

    With all the time at school, and all the studytime it takes to get through the day to pass the daily, weekly, and other various tests, I have just not had time to post much. The audio blog is free too but I have not felt confortable with using it. Seems like what ever I post with it sounds like stupid crap. I just do not have a radio dj voice.

    I will try and post more


    Wednesday, July 21, 2004

    First audio post

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    Thursday, July 15, 2004

    Windows Update (for XP)

    If you run XP, there is a new set of updates that you should probably run. Always remember to read what your agreeing to install. You might not need all of these items.

    Also, (and don't forget to do this if you know how) make a restore point before doing the update.
    Don't know where to find the page? "Click here"


    Tuesday, July 13, 2004

    Tell me kids don't watch and understand.

    For anyone who thinks that small children do not watch and grasp the news, think of this.

    The Queen of Hearts, Mr. Disney, please don't sue me.While visiting my parents a couple of weeks ago, they took everyone to see a play. It was the local theater's version of "Alice in Wonderland". The kids watched it and they appeared to like the whole thing. The part that makes you think, it the things they equate to the characters later on. For example, I was talking to them the next day and we were watching Fox News. They were showing information on another hostage that was taken and what the possible outcome could be. All of a sudden, my son William turned and asked me the following question.

    Is the Queen of Hearts a member of al Qaeda?
    All she said was Off with their heads!

    I didn't know what to say that one. It has been about two weeks, and I really still don't know how to address this one. He has not brought it up again, so I am going to shelve it for the time being.

    It is amazing that kids match up things like that. I wish that they didn't have to be exposed to things like that, but society is changing to where things just like this are blasted out on the news every hour of every day.


    Monday, July 12, 2004

    The new big job market.

    I started training to be a Railroad Conductor last Monday. This is very interesting stuff. First, this is supposed to be the new be job market for the US for the next 10 years. Why? Because 80,000 jobs are going to be vacated by retiring employees. I said 80,000 in the next ten years. Think of that. That means people who are in now or are just starting now to get employed with the railroad are going to be able to go nowhere but up. Look at just one google search for "railroad jobs" and see what I am talking about.

    This is one of those jobs that are only available through a training program. And I can tell you, this is not easy stuff. I am going to class from 1500 to about 2200 weekdays. That, and I have several hours of homework every night and lots of stuff to go through all weekend. You get tested at the start of every class day, and on Mondays, you get a test over the entire previous week. And from what they told us, the weekly tests are cumulative, so they get harder and harder ever week.

    So far, I have a 97.6% grade average. There are now 15 people in the class and we started with 17. In the first 5 days, we lost two people.

    If you want to know more about this training and the job potential, either e-mail me or do all the hours of research yourself.


    Sunday, July 11, 2004

    Spyware day is today!

    If you have previously run spyware apps like Lavasoft's Adaware 6, or SpyBot - Search and Destroy, today is the day to run them again.

    Please remember to run them both, but one at a time. Also, make sure you check for updates. If it has been a long time since you ran these two items, today is the best day to run them. If you have time to read this, you have tie to run your Spyware apps.

    While your at it, do a system scan when you get up to walk away from your PC. there is no time like the present to stop a computer virus from hijacking your system, of destroying your data. Besides, I do not want you to send me your virus.


    Darleen's Layered Salad

    Here is a nice salad to make if your wanting a special item for a party. This is even good if you want to have a more than a tossed or garden salad for dinner. To make it up, you need to plan ahead since it needs to sit in the refrigerator overnight to set up and absorbe the flavors you add.

    Ingedrents:

    • One (1) medium head of lettuce,
    • One (1) medium white or vadalia onion,
    • 10oz. bag or box of frozen peas,     (These should be smaller peas but it is not required)
    • Two (2) Cups of Hellmans Mayonaise,
    • Three (3) Tablespoons of Parmeasian Cheese,
    • Three (3) tablespoons of granulated sugar,     (Yep, I said sugar. This is not a health salad)
    • 1/4th Teaspoon of garlic powder,
    • A pinch of salt,
    • Three (3) hard boiled eggs,
    • 1/2 to 3/4 pound of bacon,     (Ummmmmmm, Bacon)

    Directions: Leave the peas in the freezer for now and place the bacon on the side. If you have not boiled the eggs yet, wait until tomorrow to make the texture better. Just put them on the top then.

    Chop the lettuce into fine strips about 3 inches long if possible and place them in the bowl. Dice the onion and spread it evenly on top to start a layer effect. Then evenly mix the remaining ingredients in a seperate bowl and then spread the mixture on top of the lettuce and onions. pour the peas on top and then crumble the bacon on top of that.

    Refrigerate this overnight!

    do the last part by boiling the eggs and once cool, chopping them up for placement on top. Crumbling the bacon and serve with big tongs to get the layer effect if you can. that way, no one person gets all topping or lettuce. If this is confusing just try it for your self and family. After you do this once, you will understand what to do.


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    Saturday, July 10, 2004

    It is not my responsibility, not my fault.

    Linda AlvesBack when I was stationed onboard the USS Yellowstone, I had a very close friend named Linda Alves. I have always wondered what would have happened if we had actually stayed as close friends. Yeah, I know that what is past is over and can never be done over, but I have been dwelling on it lately for some reason.

    Let me start with the present. Right now, Linda is gone. So, any thoughts on this subject are absolutely theoretical.

    1982-5 Linda, myself, and a about 16 others were stationed aboard the USS Yellowstone. It was a Destroyer Tender so the crew included men and women. Considering all I have ever been stationed aboard are Tenders, this has always been normal to me. OK, while on the Yellowstone, Linda never drank. She was was a recovering alcoholic as she had told me in when we first met. She was "recovering" from when we first met so, once again this was normal to me. Back then, I was living in an apartment in Virginia Beach area. And since we were friends, she would come over and stay to get off the ship. Nothing more than "friend things" ever happened since I was still technically married to Cathy. Not that this mattered anyway, we were just very good friends. She would come over and we would get a movie from blockbuster. Normally, we would just hang around in our underwear, smoke cigarettes and play cards. I figured it didn't matter anyway, nothing was going to happen between us anyway.

    Back to the story. She and I would just sit around the apartment (or the shop) and bullcrap for hours. It was one thing to talk to someone you were friends with, and a totally different thing to talk to your spouse. But with her, I could say anything I wanted. All without feeling like I was being scrutinized with a waiting criticism. That is the normal way it was with all my previous relationships. Someone was always waiting around the corner (while sitting on their ass) to come back with some scathing remark about how "that is dumb", or "that will never work". Linda and I worked together for several years at that point so she kinda understood the way I thought.

    Back then, I was literally called "MacGyver" because of all the crazy things I would build. Lifting hoists for bearing shafts (there were about 400 pounds and you have to precisely place them on jigs to rework them), vacuum tubes to suck water out of the tiedown holes on the flight deck, goofy things like that. Well, Linda would never criticize me for spending my time making things up. usually, she would just be watching TV in the shop and wander by once in a while to see what it was that day I was making. But she never would give me grief or offer the normal sarcasm the others did. In other words, she was someone I felt confident and relaxed in talking about things.

    Another aspect of our friendship was trust. We could do things normal friends could do. If I was there in the shop, I remember washing her hair in the deep-sink several times while we were underway. Showers aboard ship are sometimes few and far between due to water rationing. But in the shop, we had running water. And if need be, we had a big tank and a very large torch which could be made into a hot tub. She used it once that I know of. I remember because when you came into the top level of the shop, you could sorta look down into the tank. She didn't notice I had come in and was spashing around and being silly. I have to assume that Frank let her do this. I don't think she would have ever done it alone (unless she thought she would either never get caught, or no one would ever come in and find her spashing around.

    OK, it was really an acid tank for cleaning parts, but we rarely ever used it so it was always clean and empty.
    We also had some large pots, pans, and buckets for various industrial jobs and making up things to eat which we didn't want to share with everyone. these were great for heating up some water to take a sponge bath.

    Now you have to be serious about this idea. When you work with people 24/7 for years, and even sleep in the same shop, on (or under) the same benches, you get to be pretty close. Imagine spending 6 months with 15 or so people in an area roughly 500 square feet. That small area is where you work, relax, watch TV, listen to music, play cards, eat snacks, sometimes even sleep. It gets rather small after a while, and all those ideas of "gender specific" problems go away (quickly). In our case, what we did was so extremely dangerous. The work literally could have killed any of us on any given day. This also added to the trust we maintained in each other. Sure, there were the horndogs in the shop, but that was pretty much contained to their interests outside the shop.

    I think the part where I knew we were such close friends, is when we used to sit in the apartment, eating popcorn and watching videos after work, and just fall asleep on the couch. Nothing was ever mentioned between us about anything more. Because that is not what either of us wanted. I do not believe I have ever had another person so close as that.

    Married people do not count in what I am trying to say.
    Bree and I are close friends, but we are married. It is not the same thing. Married people do not have the same rituals or agreements that friends have. They are 180 out in my opinion. One of the things you do when your friends, is that you look out after each other in a different manner. Consider this one. When

    Roxanne is the blonde on the left, Linda is the redhead on the right1990? I saw Roxanne a few years back. I am not really sure of the date. Roxanne came by the Canopus and told the situation. Apparently Linda had a real rough time handling shore duty. She never was much for stand-alone situations. Linda really liked to be with people. Anyway, the way I heard it, She had a bad time, fell off the wagon, someone had helped her out, but it didn't do any good. Finally, she took what money she had, checked into a hotel room on Ocean View, and drank herself to death. She had made many wrong decisions in her life. She just was lonely, frightened, and she always seemed helpless in many ways. Even though she had friends, none had made the effort to help. Maybe that is the part that bothers me so much. All she needed to do it pick up the phone and call.

    "W,S,C" This is one of those times you look back and think "Woulda, Shoulda, Coulda". I imagine that if I had been around, I would have taken care of her. She was one of the best friends I have ever had. But I was not there, I was hundreds of miles away, and going on with my life as it was. I have to remind myself of the facts once in a while just to keep from blaming myself.

    I will not go on further with this one. I am just trying to think things through and had to write it down, for my own sake. I am very happy that I have Bridget. She understands and always is there for me.


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    What not to send in an e-mail.

    I am just saving this for later so I can refer people back to it when they screw up and send out spam, porn, or some other kind of stupid item either on purpose or by accident. I do not agree with all of this. It is way to easy on stupid mistakes, but it is interesting all the same.

    Avoiding Office Email Gaffes

    Smart email use is all about common sense. By Eric Wilinski

        Just because e-mail is an everyday part of life in the office doesn't mean it's something you don't have to think carefully about. Sending or receiving ill-conceived or improper email via your work account can lead to everything from embarrassment to disciplinary action.

        Or both. Consider the case of one London couple, which last year had their private email correspondence forwarded around the world after the young man involved forwarded a sexually revealing email from the young woman to some pals at work. In addition to the resulting ignominy both suffered, the young man involved became the subject of an investigation by his law firm.

        Of course, your email gaffes are most likely not going to turn you into a global laughingstock. But office email, when used improperly, can undermine your efforts to get ahead in your career. Following are some tips to help you use email to your advantage rather than detriment.

        Keep it short and sweet. Email is not a form of communication that lends itself to long missives. If you do send a long e-mail-if you send a product description to a potential client, for instance, or if you send a clarification of departmental policy to your colleagues - make sure you go over the details in person as well as in your email, since relying on your email to communicate all the details often fails. And use paragraphs-readers have a much easier time deciphering longer emails that impart information in discreet, readable chunks than in endless-seeming blocks of text.

        Avoid discussing sensitive information. Despite the seeming harmlessness of email, it is not really private; just ask the London couple mentioned above. It's way too simple for the recipient of your email to forward it to others. And remember that your company can access any email going into or out of your account. Rule number one for emailing sensitive information: Assume that any email you send will be read by people other than its intended recipients.

        Another reason to avoid including sensitive information in e-mail is that you might change your mind about whether you want to let that information be known. Michael Eisner, for instance, once sent financial information about Disney to journalists without realizing it had not yet been publicly released. Rule number two for emailing sensitive information: Think before you hit "send."

        Know when to use email, and when to have a discussion in person or over the phone. These days people like to use email for all kinds of purposes for which it is usually not ideal. If you want to brainstorm, or to manage or critique others, it's usually best to do so in person - or, failing that, over the phone.

        There are a number of reasons for this. For one thing, email does not communicate unspoken nuances the way personal communication does. For another, people are often not as "present" when they read email as they are in a real-time meeting. Think about it: How many times have you thought you communicated something perfectly clearly via email, only to have to go over it all again later in person?

        Send email only to those who will want or need to see it. Don't cc: emails about your company's Widget Version 4.0 to people who are not involved in the Widget Version 4.0 project. Don't hit "reply all" if your message is really meant just for the person whose email you're responding to.

        And don't send that forwarded joke about the pope, the rabbi, and the e-business consultant to everyone in the office. Those who don't share your sense of humor - or are too busy to laugh - will lose respect for you over time. Far better to try to spread cheer to a select few who will appreciate it than to everybody.

        Give your email context. A message without context is a message that's likely to be deleted as soon as it's read. There are a number of ways to avoid this. For one thing, you should use your emails' subject lines to make it clear what they're about. Don't say "FYI" when you can say "FYI Widget Version 4.0 Q3 revenue estimates." For another, you should use a salutation at the top of the body of your emails, and include your electronic signature at the bottom; that way, those who are forwarded or cc:ed the email will have an easier time understanding who is speaking to whom and why they are being involved in the conversation. Finally, try to respond to emails by cutting and pasting so that your email contains snippets of earlier emails followed by your specific response to each snippet.

        Spell recipients' names correctly. This may seem like a no-brainer, but you'd be surprised by how often people misspell their coworkers' names. If the person you're sending an email to is named "Kerry," make sure you don't address her as "Kerri." It shows that the recipient is not important enough to you to take the time to address correctly.

    This is all I am going to add. If there is more that you would like to know, just e-mail me. Otherwise, just use common sense.


    Brutally Honest Personals

    Now this proves that truth in advertising is not dead, it is just profitable. Go to the Esquire site and fill out a personal ad to be posted in the magazine. That, and they will put you on the website.

    That is an offer that no single person can ignore!

    click on the link above, or the line below to go there now.


    Saturday, June 26, 2004

    Command line reboot.

    Do you run XP? Do you reboot your box at least weekly? If you setup a scheduled task using the following command line, you can save yourself some headaches.

    1. Go in through the administrator account to make this up. That way, it will run no matter who is logged in at the time it kicks-off.
      It will also be beneficial if you set this up on your clients, parents, or friends machines. They will not even know it is running and that way they can't complain to you when it runs in the middle of match of Unreal or Neverwinter Nights. Take into consideration that 99% of the people never remember 10 minutes after you inform them of the change. Be sure that you document this somewhere so you can tell them "I told you so" when they do complain "the computer restarts (fill in the blank) every day/week and I can't figure out why."
    2. Create a batch file and place it either in the root of "C:" or in a maintenance directory. I have a directory on every machine I operate or work on called "c:\maintenance". This is where I put all my batch files or maintenance items. It is consistent across all my machines or systems of others I work on.
      C:\WINNT\system32\shutdown.exe -r -f -c "The system is shutting down as a maintenance item, To cancel, go to Start, Programs, Shutdown_Cancel. You have 90 seconds to get your shit together, and you better be quick about it! " -t 120
    If your having problems with this one, e-mail me and I will send you all the files and how to set it up. Unless your learning how XP works, don't waste your time messing with it.


    Saturday, June 19, 2004

    Its all relative?

    While swimming at the YMCA, I had a youngster swim up and start talking. He was a nice enough kid. A little large, but nice in manner and spoke like he knew me for a long time. You don't get that very much at our YMCA, so I continued the conversation. We proceeded to talk about what we were both doing at the Y, etc... I told him about the kids, which were swimming around the shallow end. He in turn told me he was just learning to swim and could not go any deeper.

    This was no little kid. He was only about 12 or so, but he probably weighed in at about 300+ pounds. I think one of the reasons he wanted to talk, is that I spoke to him like he was just like everyone else I speak to. I doubt that most people treated him with much kindness because I would guess most judge him by his size, not his personality. From the reaction(s) he made when I asked him how he liked swimming in the big pool, I doubt anyone had talked to him much during his visit. I could not see a band around his wrist so I could not tell if he was there for day camp or not. It was not brought up in the conversation, so I didn't ask. We can leave that for the next time I talk to him, if I see him around later on.

    Back to the conversation. While we were paddling around, he had pointed out his girlfriend. He said, with a rather proud tone that she was smiling and waving at him, "Shes big, like me!". I told him, "That doesn't matter, its all relative." He immediately replied, "Yeah, all my relatives are big too!" I do not thik he understood why I was smiling.

    Hopefully, we can continue the conversation in the future.


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    Thursday, June 17, 2004

    Letter of acceptance received

    Today, I received my letter of acceptance from AMDG for their Railroad Conductor Training Program. I start on July 5th. I have to fill out some paperwork tomorrow but that should be a piece of cake.

    With all the disparaging and degrading things that are happening in the Information Technology world, I don't want continue to be caught in the downward spiral of layoffs, pay cuts, and back stabbing. The stress of being laid off is very debilitating to me.

    This is going to be a fresh start where I can get a new start and get in with an old technology which should prosper in the next few decades with the way the world is going. I have to start studying the signals and such before I get to the class. That way, I can be ahead of the situation and get the other things I need to learn out of the way easier and faster than the rest.

    If things keep going as they are with fuel prices and all the other associated rising costs of transporting goods, the railroads will have to take up the slack with an infrastructure already built to take on at least 300% more freight traffic.


    Good to sweat (a lot)

    While I was working outside today, I did some work around the yard I am happy about. I moved and stacked about 2 cords of wood. Sure, I only moved it about 70 feet, but 20 feet of that is uphill to another platu above. I moved all of it from an area in the bottoms of the lower meadow. I had intended to go along the back side of the cemetary but changed my mind to put it in line with the other 3 cords.

    It was very enjoyable to sweat a lot while doing it. I was in shade most of the time but it was still in the mid 80s so I did clear out some toxins in the process.

    One bad problem is that I have a fair case of Poision Oak on my hands but the wood had to be moved.

    There are about 40 trees that I know can come down easily. Most are close to the wood storage area too. I will have to drop four trees first to make a storage shelf about 20 feet long. I figure I will notch them like a log cabin wall and put four logs across 3 sleepers. That should be rather easy, if I can get a bit of help in maneuvering the cross pieces. If nothing else, I can move them with the truck and my block and tackle. Bree can help rig it out. Shoot, we could probably do a lot that way without any help. The only help we get is from Ian and Melissa next door and that is enough for most major work.


    "Information Technology" does it to its own again!

    Here is just one more reason to abandon Information Technology as a career. This is just another nail in the "IT" coffin.

    Click on the separator bar below to read the article.

    Fifth Third Bancorp plans to shift about 80 jobs next month from its information-technology operations to Pomeroy IT Solutions Inc. as part of a new outsourcing deal with the Hebron-based computer services firm.


    Wednesday, June 16, 2004

    By Richard: Tuesday Entry

    Yesterday my family and I cut down some trees. Then I went inside and got my Mom a popsicle. Then I came out side and I saw a whole swarm of cicadas. So I ran to give my Mom her popsicle then I pointed it out to her and her reaction was she screamed for at least thirty seconds. Then we came in because the horse flies were coming out.

    Tuesday, June 15, 2004

    By Richard: Monday

    We went to the libary and I checked out a book called "Medicine" it is awesome! After that we cleaned up the living room and hallway. Then we went to the YMCA.


    Monday, June 14, 2004

    By Richard: Sunday

    Sunday, We didn't go to church since it was in the afternoon, Dad needed to do some resumes and Mom had to go to work. We helped Dad clean up the house. Later, we went swimming at the YMCA because Dad was going crazy and needed a break bad.


    Sunday, June 13, 2004

    Lincoln's Gettysburg Address

    This speech was given November 19, 1863 on the battlefield near Gettysburg, Pennsylvania, USA. My personal opinion is that everyone in the United States should be required to read this very short, but important speech at least once every three years. Just to keep things in perspective on what is right and what is wrong. If you do not understand what I mean, you probably don't understand what is being said in the speech.

    If you need this speech in another language, "click here"

    Four score and seven years ago, our fathers brought forth upon this continent a new nation: conceived in liberty, and dedicated to the proposition that all men are created equal.

    Now we are engaged in a great civil war...testing whether that nation, or any nation so conceived and so dedicated, can long endure. We are met on a great battlefield of that war.

    We have come to dedicate a portion of that field as a final resting place for those who here gave their lives that this nation might live. It is altogether fitting and proper that we should do this.

    But, in a larger sense, we cannot dedicate...we cannot consecrate... we cannot hallow this ground. The brave men, living and dead, who struggled here have consecrated it, far above our poor power to add or detract. The world will little note, nor long remember, what we say here, but it can never forget what they did here.

    It is for us the living, rather, to be dedicated here to the unfinished work which they who fought here have thus far so nobly advanced. It is rather for us to be here dedicated to the great task remaining before us...that from these honored dead we take increased devotion to that cause for which they gave the last full measure of devotion. . . that we here highly resolve that these dead shall not have died in vain. . . that this nation, under God, shall have a new birth of freedom..and that government of the people...by the people...for the people... shall not perish from this earth.


    Washing her hair

    There is nothing more relaxing to me than washing my daughters hair. One, because she has that very fine blonde hair that makes you take your time. Since she is my daughter, this really makes me feel like I am a real father. The thought that she will eventually grow up and move out, and all those parent things is always in my mind. The idea that this will never happen again makes every time I wash her hair even more special.

    Ok, the fact that I don't have a hair on my head does not really come into it. But it is something I used to enjoy. In High school, I had a girlfriend who had beautiful, silky hair and really took care of it to the nth degree.

    For some reason (which I still can't figure out), she loved to have me sit down by the stationary tubs in her basement and she would wash my hair over and over. I had shoulder length hair then, so it was really a two hour (+) ordeal every time. I remember it so vividly. She would always talk to me about what was going on in her life like I didn't know her (like someone who does your hair in a salon). I never said anything, I just listened all the while she gently performed her task of "Lather, Rinse, Repeat".

    That is something I truly miss. Not because she is no longer in my life, but that my hair is no longer worth the effort of more than three minutes and a towel dry. Shoot, most of the time I just shave my head now so shampoo is rarely needed. Now its "Shave, Towel dry, moisturizer" and what is the fun in that?


    How can you trust them, when you can't contact them???

    Now how can you trust a company who does internet business, when you can't reach them for assistance?

    Well, that is exactly what I am asking myself right now. I attempted to use the online site for "Target", but there is an error on their page which needs to be fixed before I even consider buying from them. But guess what! You can't reach them to notify them the specific area on the site does not work. If you send an e-mail to the standard addresses (I.E., administrator@, webmaster@, help@), you come up with butkis. On top of that, the reply steers you to a link which looped you right back to where you were. There is not even a phone number to call listed.

    The Target.com site is supposed to be run by Amazon.com. That one thing makes me leary on using Amazon itself. I have purchased many books from Amazon over the last 5 years or so. All were delivered in a timely manner and without a huge shipping fee. But that one "Aw-Crap", shot the twenty (+) "atta-boys" right out the window.


    Did you know?

    Idoubt that anyone knows, but if you click on the spacer bar below each post, I add in a link to go to a page I have just visited.

    Weird, ain't it!?!


    An ear ache...........Still,

    William was not feeling to good because he has an ear infection. He did feel a little better about 1300, so I didn't let him out of my sight for most of the morning.


    "Burgers" Future dinner, or waste of time?

    The kids and I grilled up 60 burgers on the grill early on this morning. I had them help me prep the buns (yes, 60 of them) and then wrap them up for the freezer.

    The best part, is that no one complained when we put catsup, mustard, and pickle relish on them. I was expecting a big ordeal with anything other than catsup, but it never transpired. Nice to know that I can get them to eat these with out complaining later on. I figure we can test them out this next week as an "experiment" for the boys scouting books.


    Bree working on Sundays,

    Today was also a day where Bree had to work all day. At least she was not in a terrible mood when she returned. Usually, the people who come into her store on Sunday's are very mean and hateful (her words). That translates into her being very upset when she gets home. It must have something to do with these "mean people" not going to church on Sundays and only going shopping. Either that, or these people are just "$" worshipers. I guess anyone who worships the almighty dollar would be a hateful and or spiteful person all around.


    The brick drive / walkway,

    The walkway is another matter all together. I do know that I have to use the roundup on the walkway. It looks terrible. Well, that is nothing 30 hours worth of work wouldn't fix up. I would imagine that is about the amount of time it will take me to rework all the bricks in the walkway. I have to draw it up and plan what I am going to do, but it should be an interesting project to do.


    Yard work, time well spent,

    I mowed the yard for two hours. I think there are about 3 to 4 more hours worth of stuff to do, not counting use of the week-whacker.


    Sunday was....... Useful

    While we didn't get to Church today, I did get a lot of work done around the house.


    By Richard: Baseball game on Saturday

    I had a ballgame in the morning. The only people to make it home was Sean and Travis. The game was at Riverside field #1, in Newtown. Coach Reaker says "It is kind of like our home field." I hit a really good pop-fly ball to the outfield, and made it to 2nd base. But the next hitter struckout and I didn't get home. We lost 13 to 2, but the other team was very good and the catcher was one of the best I have seen.

    Saturday, June 12, 2004

    Today is Goetta day in Cincinnati

    Today, it is GoettaFest day in Cincinnati. There is no better way to beat the heat than with a big steaming hunk of goetta!

    I hope someone brought the catsup!


    By Richard: The YMCA and a movie,

    Friday, we picked up our friend Jacob and went to the YMCA. He stayed the night with William and we watched the movie "Iron Giant" and played Yu-Gi-Oh and he won.

    Thursday, June 10, 2004

    By Richard: If I was stranded in the forest

    First, I would build an emergency shelter out of sticks,twigs, and thick branches and rocks. First thing I would do is cut down thick branches and make a tepee shape out of the branches.

    Then, I would layer it with sticks and twigs and make a full circle out of stones to keep out the rain. I would set a bond fire to signal for help. I would not want to eat bugs and fish, ut probably would have to. When a plane came to rescue me, I would feel happy!


    Monday, June 07, 2004

    By Richard: What happened on Sunday

    We had a lot of stuff to do like do the laundry,cook. We also went to mine and Williams ballgame we both lost. We could not find Maryann`s game. It was at Wilson I bet she would of won. We went to a friends graduation it was long!


    By Richard: What happened on Saturday

    HI! yesterday we watched Spy Kids 3 [not the 3d verson] it was awesome. I think it should be for 9 ,10 and 11 year olds. My favorit part was when Juni was on the robot and fought Dramaca and the tinkertotts attaced them!


    Wednesday, June 02, 2004

    Today is the kids last day of school

    Even though they do not have school until August, Bree has lots of school related things to do. I feel that even though they are not at school, they will be wishing they were.

    At this moment, there are math books, reading programs, and lots of things to keep them busy. This is all good for me since I have so much crap to do, I will have to postpone my funeral until 8 years past my death.


    Back to the job search

    The first major application I put in was for the State of Ohio. It is not exactly what I want but at this point I am not picky.

    Your application for Data Systems Assistant Administrator PCN # 7621.0 has been received at 6/2/2004 3:44:20 PM.
    This is one of those, I get the job and either commute or move. Columbus is a 2 hour commute (each way).


    Sunday, May 30, 2004

    Unhiding "hidden" applications

    This is a repost of noteworthy information. It came up several months ago, but no one remembers where I put it (and do not want to take the time to look for it). That, and I do not keep posting lists of things I have done in the past.

    We all want to uninstall everything Windows doesn't completely need to run optimally. Problem is, some programs you don't want taking up space are hidden. They're next to impossible to find, much less remove.

    Don't worry, because there is a Windows tweak that'll help you immediately. It is very easy to do, but do not attempt this change on my recommendation. I can't pay to get your PC fixed if you screw it up.

    To unhide "hidden" applications:

    1. Navigate to C:\WINDOWS\inf

    2. Open the sysoc.inf file in Notepad or another plain text editor. If you can't find the inf directory, it's probably hidden. Unhide it.

      1. Click Tools and choose Folder Options.
      2. Under View, enable Show Hidden Files & Folders.

    3. In sysoc.inf, look for the section called "components" in XP or "old base components" in 2000. What looks like a bunch of gibberish is actually pretty easy to read. You'll see a component name, followed by an equals sign, followed by a list of parameters separated by commas.

      For example: Games=ocgen.dll,OcEntry,games.inf,HIDE,7

    4. The deletion: the "HIDE" between the two last commas indicates a hidden component. Remove "HIDE" to unhide the component.

      For example:Games=ocgen.dll,OcEntry,games.inf,,7

    5. Unhide any component you want.

    6. Save the file.

    7. Reopen the Windows Component Wizard to see your new Add/Remove options!

    As I said before, this is an easy change. It will not be necessary for 96% of Windows users. It will be needed if you want to be a super-geek (like me)!


    Wednesday, May 26, 2004

    Avoiding Office Email Gaffes

        I was saving this for later (when someone sends me a stupid e-mail which they should not have sent). With the amount of badly prepared message I have received lately, I thought I should post it. This is really for people who do not take sending e-mail serious. What is generally thought of as something fun, is very serious when you send out something stupid to someone who you might offend. Examples are: co-workers, bosses, clients, relatives, potential employers, spouses, etc.

        One of the best, is the guy I used to know, who constantly complained about his wife to all his friends. He complained so much, he angered a few of them to the point where they forwarded all of them to his wife. OK, soon to be ex-wife. Last time I heard, her lawyer was trying to get the house, all the cars, custody of the kids, and alimony. From a couple of carelessly miss-addressed e-mails I received (remember this one later), he had expounded on a few extramarital affairs which his then wife also received as attachments.
        I have created about a dozen of these lists and put them on the internet. It's time for someone to get credit for writing stuff. I have seen my instruction sheets and advisory lists sent out to mailing lists without credit for writing them. There are so many ways to say the same stuff, I am tired of recreating it over and over and over again. Even if you dismiss most of the information in here as irrelevant, It is interesting all the same.

    Avoiding Office Email Gaffes

    Smart email use is all about common sense.

        Just because e-mail is an everyday part of life in the office doesn't mean it's something you don't have to think carefully about. Sending or receiving ill-conceived or improper email via your work account can lead to everything from embarrassment to disciplinary action.

        Or both. Consider the case of one London couple, which last year had their private email correspondence forwarded around the world after the young man involved forwarded a sexually revealing email from the young woman to some pals at work. In addition to the resulting ignominy both suffered, the young man involved became the subject of an investigation by his law firm.

        Of course, your email gaffes are most likely not going to turn you into a global laughingstock. But office email, when used improperly, can undermine your efforts to get ahead in your career. Following are some tips to help you use email to your advantage rather than detriment.

        Keep it short and sweet. Email is not a form of communication that lends itself to long missives. If you do send a long e-mail-if you send a product description to a potential client, for instance, or if you send a clarification of departmental policy to your colleagues - make sure you go over the details in person as well as in your email, since relying on your email to communicate all the details often fails. And use paragraphs-readers have a much easier time deciphering longer emails that impart information in discreet, readable chunks than in endless-seeming blocks of text.

        Avoid discussing sensitive information. Despite the seeming harmlessness of email, it is not really private; just ask the London couple mentioned above. It's way too simple for the recipient of your email to forward it to others. And remember that your company can access any email going into or out of your account. Rule number one for emailing sensitive information: Assume that any email you send will be read by people other than its intended recipients.

        Another reason to avoid including sensitive information in e-mail is that you might change your mind about whether you want to let that information be known. Michael Eisner, for instance, once sent financial information about Disney to journalists without realizing it had not yet been publicly released. Rule number two for emailing sensitive information: Think before you hit "send."

        Know when to use email, and when to have a discussion in person or over the phone. These days people like to use email for all kinds of purposes for which it is usually not ideal. If you want to brainstorm, or to manage or critique others, it's usually best to do so in person - or, failing that, over the phone.

        There are a number of reasons for this. For one thing, email does not communicate unspoken nuances the way personal communication does. For another, people are often not as "present" when they read email as they are in a real-time meeting. Think about it: How many times have you thought you communicated something perfectly clearly via email, only to have to go over it all again later in person?

        Send email only to those who will want or need to see it. Don't cc: emails about your company's Widget Version 4.0 to people who are not involved in the Widget Version 4.0 project. Don't hit "reply all" if your message is really meant just for the person whose email you're responding to.

        And don't send that forwarded joke about the pope, the rabbi, and the e-business consultant to everyone in the office. Those who don't share your sense of humor - or are too busy to laugh - will lose respect for you over time. Far better to try to spread cheer to a select few who will appreciate it than to everybody.

        Give your email context. A message without context is a message that's likely to be deleted as soon as it's read. There are a number of ways to avoid this. For one thing, you should use your emails' subject lines to make it clear what they're about. Don't say "FYI" when you can say "FYI Widget Version 4.0 Q3 revenue estimates." For another, you should use a salutation at the top of the body of your emails, and include your electronic signature at the bottom; that way, those who are forwarded or cc:ed the email will have an easier time understanding who is speaking to whom and why they are being involved in the conversation. Finally, try to respond to emails by cutting and pasting so that your email contains snippets of earlier emails followed by your specific response to each snippet.

        Spell recipients' names correctly. This may seem like a no-brainer, but you'd be surprised by how often people misspell their coworkers' names. If the person you're sending an email to is named "Kerry," make sure you don't address her as "Kerri." It shows that the recipient is not important enough to you to take the time to address correctly.

        This was written by Eric Wilinski. I am not sure who sent this article to me (via e-mail), but I wanted to be fair and post him as the writer. That is something no one else has ever done for me.


    Tuesday, May 25, 2004

    26 May's Holiday

    May 26th is National Blueberry Cheesecake Day. I don't know who or what came up with this one but it sounds like a good thing to me! I guess I better take advantage of it and head over to the bakery and pick one up.


    Sunday, May 23, 2004

    Arrogant? Yes - Funny? (from my P.O.V.), Oh yes!

    This is another one from years ago. But I think it is funny and normally pisses people off for the arrogance factor. So I am posting it again for no good reason except I think it is smug.

    So this is the story...

    At a cocktail reception, a man found himself in a small group that included an admiral from each of the two navies. The French admiral started complaining that whereas Europeans learned many languages, Americans only learned English. He then asked, "Why is it that we have to speak English in these conferences rather than you have to speak French?" Without even hesitating, the American admiral replied, "Maybe it is because we arranged it so that you did not have to learn to speak German."
    The group became silent.

    After spending half my life in the Navy, I can see this probably did happen, just not like it says here.


    THE THERMODYNAMICS OF HELL

    OK, This is a strange little note that I received in an e-mail years ago. I found it again while deleting old data to free up disk space. I would think that it is complete BS, but it is an interesting little story all the same.

    Just a reminder, this site is, and always has been rated as "mature for language and content". If your browser was set to filter content, you would not be reading this blog in the first place. So I guess that this whole paragraph is rather a moot point. Besides, I think that the nastiest thing I have ever said in this blog was "Crap". You never know, I could be wrong.

    On to the question!

    The following is an actual question given on a University of Washington chemistry mid term. The answer by one student was "so profound" that the professor shared it with colleagues, via the Internet, which is, of course,why we now have the pleasure of enjoying it as well.

    Bonus Question: Is Hell exothermic (gives off heat) or endothermic (absorbs heat)?

    Most of the students wrote proofs of their beliefs using Boyle's Law,(gas cools off when it expands and heats). One student, however, wrote the following: First, we need to know how the mass of Hell is changing in time. So we need to know the rate that souls are moving into Hell and the rate they are leaving. I think that we can safely assume that once a soul gets to Hell, it will not leave. Therefore, no souls are leaving.

    As for how many souls are entering Hell, let's look at the different religions that exist in the world today. Some of these religions state that if you are not a member of their religion, you will go to Hell. Since there are more than one of these religions and since people do not belong to more than one religion, we can project that all souls go to Hell. With birth and death rates as they are, we can expect the number of souls in Hell to increase exponentially.

    Now, we look at the rate of change of the volume in Hell because Boyle's Law states that in order for the temperature and pressure in Hell to stay the same, the volume of Hell has to expand proportionately as souls are added.

    This gives two possibilities: 1. If Hell is expanding at a slower rate than the rate at which souls enter Hell, then the temperature and pressure in Hell will increase until all Hell breaks loose. 2. If Hell is expanding at a rate faster than the increase of souls in Hell, then the temperature and pressure will drop until Hell freezes over.
    So which is it? If we accept the postulate given to me by Teresa during my Freshman year, "...that it will be a cold day in Hell before I sleep with you," and take into account the fact that I still have not succeeded in having sexual relations with her, then #2 cannot be true, and thus I am sure that Hell is exothermic and will not freeze.

    The student received the only "A" given.


    Thursday, May 20, 2004

    Roofing estimate delayed

    When Bridget told me she would not be available for the roofing estimate, that was the first time I heard about her Thursday helping at Ayer Elementary.

    I just got off the phone with the roofing company and I am waiting for a callback to see if anyone must be there. I doubt it but I want to talk to the guy about what could be done to stop this problem in the future.


    Tuesday, May 18, 2004

    OK, Change 2

    Well, the shower curtain was not purple after all. It is clear and was sitting on top of a folded bright purple shirt.

    Case closed? No way. Now, the arguement is that I don't like it and she has to take it back. Nope, That is not the case. Now that I know it is not purple, it is fine.

    The problem I have now is that instead of just saying, "It is not purple" in the first place, she has to argue that it is still the wrong thing and has to take it back. The fact that it is not purple does not even register in her brain. So, she gripes and grunts that I said she should not buy a shower curtain in the first place.

    If you think your missing something in this story, your not. I don't get it either.


    Well, I don't think I would have chosen that myself

    This entry is currently being revised. Please check back in a little while. This thought is not yet complete!

    While I was down at Jon's Graduation (for another post later), Bridget bought a new shower curtain. We had discussed it sometime before I left so I didn't think anything else about it.

    I returned home and while trudging through the debris, I noticed a new shower curtain. It was a nice one and I thought about the implications of this wondrous new purchase to myself for a moment. I say this because we have a very "resale worthy" paint scheme in the house. In the event we can sell, we would not have much to do in the way of painting or cleaning up major portions of the house. The bathroom is a prime example of this neutral motif. The walls, tub, towels, vanity, toilet, shower enclosure (tiled area), and even the opaque lightbulbs are all white. The tile floor is what I would call a tan-rust-brown combination. Very easy to match to anything in the way of accessories or fixtures. This is where the curtain comes in.

    When I first noticed the new shower curtain, I new there was going to be trouble from Bridget. The thing looked very nice. It had a nice texture and looked like it would hang very nicely.....

    If the bathroom was a medium to dark Purple!
    There in lies the trouble. Not that the color does not go with anything within our home, but that I made her choose something. Yes, the blame for a purple shower curtain is all on me.

    But honestly, I doubt that I would have repeated my questions further than "Did you get a new shower curtain", if she had not told me it cost around $25 at J.C.Pennys. Sure, a $7 shower curtain from Wally-World could be any color or theme imaginable, and never cause me a second thought. But for $25, it better match the colors in the bathroom, or wash my back when I get in the shower

    I am now the person responsible for making her make a bad decision in the first place. It is not like she could have chosen a color that matches. No, it is my fault. She told me I didn't tell her what to get. OK, call me a fool for allowing an adult to make a common sense decision. Well, that won't happen again.